{"id":3413,"date":"2017-03-21T09:58:36","date_gmt":"2017-03-21T04:28:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/35.185.130.28\/?p=3413"},"modified":"2022-09-30T13:01:17","modified_gmt":"2022-09-30T07:31:17","slug":"why-are-modern-relationships-falling-apart-so-easily","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/why-are-modern-relationships-falling-apart-so-easily\/","title":{"rendered":"Why are modern relationships falling apart so easily?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u201cThere cannot be relationships unless there is the commitment unless there is loyalty unless there is love. Patience and persistence.\u201d- Cornel West<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/relationship.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-3414 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/relationship.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"596\" height=\"397\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/relationship.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/relationship-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/relationship-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/relationship-1024x683.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 596px) 100vw, 596px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nThe word &#8216;relationship&#8217; has <strong><em>meanings and implications so wide<\/em> <\/strong>that no one ever was able to understand it. After experiencing your broken relationship you are now able to understand that it\u2019s not a bed of roses\u00a0but a path laid with thorns on which you need to tread carefully. But why did that happen? Ever wondered even if you loved that person with the core of your heart but still not able to keep them for your life?<\/p><div id=\"paisa-561835352\" class=\"paisa-content paisa-entity-placement\" style=\"margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4h8j21D\" aria-label=\"blog banner app popup copy\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/s3.ap-south-1.amazonaws.com\/img.paisawapas\/images\/2025\/03\/06184200\/blog-banner-app-popup-copy.jpg\" alt=\"\"  width=\"300\" height=\"300\"   \/><\/a><\/div>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><strong>Also read:\u00a0http:<a style=\"color: #003300;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/destiny-in-our-hands\/\">Destiny in our hands.<\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/breakup.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-3415 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/breakup.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"572\" height=\"381\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/breakup.jpg 2125w, https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/breakup-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/breakup-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/breakup-1024x682.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 572px) 100vw, 572px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nYou must have heard of the <em><strong>stories of great lovers like Romeo-Juliet and Heer-Ranjha<\/strong><\/em> or even your grandparents love story. But\u00a0today\u2019s relationships are not what it was ages ago. What is the <em><strong>reason that modern-day\u00a0relationships are crumbling so easily<\/strong><\/em>? We definitely need\u00a0to know why modern relationships are so hard to keep. We haven\u2019t forgotten to love but what is happening in this era that people are ready to leave the track instead of working hard to keep it?<\/p>\n<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/breakup-in-relationship.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-3416 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/breakup-in-relationship.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"617\" height=\"411\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/breakup-in-relationship.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/breakup-in-relationship-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/breakup-in-relationship-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 617px) 100vw, 617px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nUnconditional love:<\/h2>\n<p><em>What is unconditional love? It&#8217;s rare to find now. A relationship is not a fancy cake served on silver platter. If no one is ready to sacrifice and compromise, then that relationship will never work out. It seems easy when just said, but takes your heart out to work for it. At present, people are not selfless enough and ready to devote much to their relationships to make it an \u2018unconditional\u2019 love.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Attraction:<\/h2>\n<p><em>One of the major causes of having a wrong relationship is that today, people don\u2019t know the difference between true love and attraction or lust. We are now so greedy that all we need to have is a perfect partner with whom we don\u2019t give any chance of staying forever. The moment we find someone better takes the present relationship to death and move on to next because we are in \u2018love\u2019. We choose instant gratification over long-term commitment.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/loyalty-in-relationship.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3417 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/loyalty-in-relationship.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/loyalty-in-relationship.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/loyalty-in-relationship-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nFidelity:<\/h2>\n<p><em>We want the best of everything but are not ready to work hard for it. People, nowadays, are ready to spend as much time as possible with their friends or having fun with technology, but not ready to pay attention to that one person. Everybody have their life but that doesn\u2019t mean that you forget about the person who adores and cares for you.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Career:<\/h2>\n<p><em>We see people from schools or colleges jumping into\u00a0relationships but there are only few who go long way with the person they are with. Relationships formed early on do not have a rock solid future, because partners are struggling to make a mark in their careers. Career\u00a0is important but as people grow older, life teaches you at every step, even to live without the person who was your everything at some point in time. Only a select few can balance their career with personal lives.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/spliting-up.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3418 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/spliting-up.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"276\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/spliting-up.jpg 460w, https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/spliting-up-300x180.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nExperience:<\/h2>\n<p><em>Most\u00a0people around the world, have fallen in love and suffered from a major heartbreak. But why does this become the cause of not giving chance to anyone else? We have become afraid of commitments, and skeptical about giving our hearts to someone and get it broken again. Our experiences mould us and often leave deep imprints on us, thereby affecting our future.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/relationship-again.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-3419 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/relationship-again.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"511\" height=\"358\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/relationship-again.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/www.paisawapas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/relationship-again-300x210.jpeg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 511px) 100vw, 511px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<em>We might consider all these things as irrelevant but when you are in a\u00a0relationship; loyalty, honesty, life, and everything related to that person becomes everything. Don\u2019t be scared of risks. You can find the person you were always looking for, very unexpectedly. Don\u2019t be afraid to fall in love. Anyone can have that amazing love story so why not you? Love and live a beautiful life.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThere cannot be relationships unless there is the commitment unless there is loyalty unless there is love. Patience and persistence.\u201d- Cornel West The word &#8216;relationship&#8217; has meanings and implications so wide that no one ever was able to understand it. 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